My Thoughts on Flow (Overall)
- Cool blend of science (biology, psychology, etc.) and philosophy
- Defines happiness and guides readers through the journey of the pursuit of happiness
Notes
8 Elements of Enjoyment
- Confront challenging but completable tasks
- Concentration
- Clear goals
- Immediate feedback
- Deep, effortless environment (lack of awareness of worries and frustrations)
- Sense of control over our actions
- Concern for self/self-awareness disappears (paradoxically, awareness of self is heightened immediately after flow)
- Sense of duration of time is altered
5 Elements of a Happy Teenage Life
- Clarity
- Centering: parents’ interest in the child in that moment
- Choice
- Commitment
- Challenge: parents provide appropriate challenges for their children (sports, academics, music, art, etc.)
Quadrants of Flow:
- Goal: high challenge, high skill
- (but again, not excessively challenging so as to be impossible to be completed)
- Boredom: low challenge, high skill
- Anxiety: high challenge, low skill
The Autotelic Self
”Autotelic” = (of an activity or a creative work) having an end or purpose in itself
Turning Any Activity Autotelic
- Set goals
- Become immersed in the activity
- Pay attention to what’s happening
- Learn to enjoy the immediate experience
The Autotelic Personality
- Curiosity
- Persistence
- Low self-centeredness
- A desire to perform activities for intrinsic reasons only